#7 fall in love

remember how i don't take myself too seriously? well. i don't.

however, i think love is pretty damn serious. so i'm gonna take a shot at it

some people think it's weird that i'm single.

actually, let me rephrase that.

there are people that think it's weird that i choose to be single.

because i'm a girl

pushing 30

and girls pushing 30 are supposed to want to be in a relationship.

one that leads to marriage. and children. and a house with a picket fence. and a labrador retriever.

yes.

i want all of that.

but i'm in no hurry

i'm sure i could be married by now.

probably a few times over.

i could be married to some amazing, generous, loyal, loving man

but the men i dated weren't for me

and i'm okay with that.

they're happy

(probably a little too happy)

and i'm the happiest i've ever been.

so it's all okay

because relationships are just a learning experience
a life experience.

and i have a very strong belief that each individual is meant to end up with one particular person

so i don't ever feel like i'm wasting my time with someone who isn't right or missing out on the person i'm supposed to be with

because he's out there

maybe i know him already.

or maybe i haven't met him yet.

regardless, just knowing he's out there waiting for me too, is pretty damn exciting